Sunday, February 27, 2022

Writer's Block Ideas...


There are days it's hard to write. There a weeks I avoid my story all together. There are times I am just plain tired from regular life...full time job, family, pets and somewhere in the middle of knowing my readers are wanting the next story I have often hit the wall.

I don't think I suffer from writers block. I have stories to finish and lists of ones to get to. But now and then I am just not gonna push to get to the story or sometimes push it away and that's OK. SOmetimes it can be good to step away from your novel to refresh your mind. But don't let it sit too long...keep your head in the story and do your best to write that story. But when writer's block seems to be hitting you there are some things to try: *read one of your previous books *read any book *work on notes related to the current story *outline another story *brainstorm ideas with others *work on social media and marketing *research for the current story but set a timer *study story structure *sometimes the point of block is where things in the story are not good...change it *try another POV *reverse trope that is happening *jump ahead or go back to another scene *Refer to your outline *Write backwards *Try music *Change where you are writing *Try butt in chair set a timer......as a last resort of course. No matter what is stopping you from getting to the story work hard to work through it. Make yourself sit and write ornplot and plan. Or...just starting writing something...anything.

Sunday, February 20, 2022

Marketing and Book Promotion ideas...no wonder there is no time left to write....


Marketing/Promoting Books is not easy for writers whos should be and want to be writing. Yet, if we do not find the time to promote our books, it's not really gonna happen. But here are a few of the things I have summed up in hopes to give out a few ideas. 

When someone wants to promote your story, be careful, sometimes that doesn't come cheap. So do your research. I was making a post on a Facebook author group and there must be a new thing where book marketers stalk these groups to nab writers for their pay off. This is not new no matter where you hang out on social media. So, again do your research and check your promotional budget for what works best for you. 

Blog Hopping is easy but can also have a fee. I choose to go mostly with those blogs that are free as I have a very limited budget for promo. 

Things to have ready for a blog or things to include: Front and Back book cover, Book Links including Audio Links, Excerpt, Blurb, Author Bio and Picture, personal blog or website link, Book trailers, 2 to 3 good reviews for starters. Some bloggers want to interview you, your characters or allow you to submit what you wish and everyone is different. I created a one-page item that has all I mentioned above on each book, but again sometimes bloggers need easier to copy and paste typed up items or jpegs for covers and pictures. Just follow their rules because they all have them. (Some call this a media kit.)

Writing Website: Yes, you should have one. These are not cheap but are helpful. Building one for a non-computer geek like me wasn't easy. I got some help and pay my fees when due. (www.kimturnerwrites.com) Things to post on a website are unlimited but I stick to my books, blurbs, and links for now. I keep the website simple. Sharing your website on social media each time something new is added is one plan. Post book trailers too! Again you can add anything you like.  

Personal Blog: No necessary but I enjoy having this one. It's free but it is not owned by me...like a website. (kimturnerwrites.blogspot.com) I have used my blog in various ways over the year. Post those same things I mentioned above in your media kit. 

A blog is a good place for giveaways or hints of what is coming with your stories. This is new for me to do a once-a-week writing post. I spotlight authors and add various things as they hit me. 

NetGalley, Bookbub, Goodreads....excellent places to have a presence and get reviews!

Facebook Author pages are popular as well as Facebook groups related to writing and book promotion/marketing are great places to hang out. But be careful, some only let you post promo on certain dates, and others not at all. I drop the ones that don't allow me to promo when I want to as my time is limited and in over 300 FB groups I can't remember who allows promo on the third Friday of each month...come on. I also find Facebook parties create a lot of fun around a new book, but I think that depends on how well they are set up. 

Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, Pinterest are all great places to promote your stories!

Amazon Author Central: Got and set up your author page. Connect your books to you and keep it updated. It has a place to add your website and even book trailers. This is free. 

YouTube: It's a great place to make your own page and I add all my book trailers there. It wasn't too hard to set up either and it's free. 

Newsletter. A lot of authors find this helpful, my issue has always been time. So I have more than not used my personal blog as a newsletter to catch folks up on my writing. 

Street Teams: The special people that read for you and get sneak peeks of stories. This can go a long way but besides a special group of beta readers, I have not done a newsletter. 

Some authors have the money to pay for major promotions but be careful about companies and what they offer or what they think they can offer. This can range from a few hundred to thousands of dollars. Not in my budget with being with a small press. 

All the things mentioned here are by far not all that is out there to help you sell books but this is a hint for those that are new. Look each item up and do your own research so you can make the right choices that fit you and where you are in marketing and promo. 

Happy selling! Hey, quit playing on your phone and get back to your story!













Sunday, February 13, 2022

Snagging Moments to Write

I am the queen of snagging a moment to write no matter where I am. It's true what they say that writers should have a notebook handy at all times. Seriously, put a notebook in handy places.

Purse
Car
Bathroom
Kitchen
Laundry Room
Nightstand
Work desk

It might not be overkill to have a notebook everywhere for some writers. Maybe one notebook you have small enough to keep it on your person. 

Everyone will have to develop their own way that works just like with anything else. 

When I first started writing I first wrote in a notebook and later typed it on my laptop....this was a huge waste of time and energy for me. It made the process long and tedious. For some writers though this works well. 

But what happens when you have no notebook and a big idea hits? I have been known to write a scene or thought on a napkin but also on a receipt standing in line to vote of all things. This is all right, don't you think? But the goal with random pieces of paper is to get them where they won't be lost. Back to your writing notebook or your writing room. I am not always organized but as my writing notebook proves...messy and crazy define the book in the end. 

But those random thoughts that hit you when you are not writing do not have to be jotted down on paper. For me my Galaxy Note Phone (sorry not an iPhone girl....not a Mac girl...I resist on purpose) is the best writing tool I own. 

I use my phone to keep those random thoughts that hit. I have used my phone to write scenes and full chapter that I later email to myself and then copy and past into my current WIP. (Work in progress)

This works for me and no matter where I am the story is gaining word count. Since I am a panster who plots a bit on a story board I know what scenes are needed and I have been known to write a small scene at lunch. Later I can merge the scene into my WIP and as I do I can fluff and edit a bit and make story progress. 

Laptops, tablets, phones...the possibilities are endless and you have to find out what works for you. 

I have been known to write on my laptop or phone at soccer practice, the doctors off, waiting in various lines, and my favorite place....the beach on a lounge chair poolside. I just keep a waterproof cover for my laptop when I am not using it. 

It is true thought that if you plan your writing time, make sure you have a consistent writing place that is comfortable you can train your brain to be ready to write. The words will come. Lessen distraction. Music if you like. A nice smelling candle or fun light can help. A place that is yours. Setting a timer helps some authors produce word count. But again everyone has to find their own nitch. 

Again having an outline (for me the storyboard I mentioned) really helps you know the story. You will know then what needs to be written scene by scene. 

I never write in order....ever. So there are times I know I need a scene that happens to connect to scenes and so I spend time with my storyboard to map things out. Some authors love Scrivner or like programs for the same thing. I like my story board and so I write things by hand there with sticky notes of what will happen....sticky notes let me change where something is located if needed. It makes it easy to move scenes. It also makes it easy to change up what happens when my characters write their own story....and...hey I didn't know that was gonna happen...but I like it. (Coming up I hope to do a post all about how I storyboard and various ways of doing that.)

Another things for me is I spend a lot of time on the road driving to and from the Nurse Job. So I try to use that time to plot in my head what scene I need to write that evening when I get home from work. Haggling through ideas of how something occurs or what is going to happen let's me better utilize my time when I do get to my laptop. Some of that planning winds up on my story board and or I write that scene and its done. 

The main thing is to snag those random ideas that hit you and get them into your story, so whether you use paper, your brain or a quick note on your phone, it will help you in your final goal of....FINISHING THE BOOK!

Then let the edits begin!


Thursday, February 10, 2022

Tomboy then and now...

 Me....still...and ongoing....and forever...

I cried every Sunday morning because God required I wear a dress to church. I never liked church until I grew up and chose a church where I could wear a t-shirt, jeans and Tevas if I wanted to. 
Oh I loved Jesus and still do...but I don't think he required a dress to learn his word. Sometimes I have been known to dress less fancy for the shock factor anyway...

Case in point...we took a cruise and you had to dress up to eat in the diningroom. It wasn't the Titantic by any means so....NOPE! Jeans with a sweatshirt and tennis shoes for me...I paid what the others sitting nearby paid...I'll have the filet mignon, thanks. If a restaurant needs dress up....for me it's a pass. 

I didn't go to my senior prom not because I didn't have a date but because....yeah the dress thing again and being formal and heels hurt my feet and I'd rather have Taco Bell than brussel spouts. I stayed home and read a book...much happier that way. 

Yep, I wore a wedding dress but I had a ballcap to match once the pictures were done. And I had a Yoo Hoo...not wine...and I was barefoot. Married on the beach. And my vows were love, honor, cherish....not obey. Didn't prefer that choice of words...but I love him still.

I sort of feel sorry for my daughters...I am not the princess type and they probably needed a better girlie girl type role model. Hair, make-up and dress up with heels....uh...pass! I'm the mama who pushed them to do things for themselves, not remain a helpless female and even now talk to them about not having to rely on a man for their future. Sure fall in love and find your partner, not one you have to take care of or one who has no idea how to hold down a job to provide. Go provide for yourself...don't set yourself up to rely on anyone. 

My Dad taught me to ride a motorcycle and drive a stick shift and change a tire. My Mom taught me to play softball, cook and paint...yes paint walls inside the house and outside if needed...a farm girl in her own rights. 

I am not too keen on bugs and certainly not spiders but I love to camp and I have fished more hours than could be counted. My Grandmother wouldn't fish on Sundays but I have no hard rules about that. 

I also played drums...not flute...why be normal? Drums were more fun...actually Xylophone was my favorite. 

I loved my Papa and Granny's farm...endless hours to explore. Horses, cows, wild kittens, fields, ponds, and I even slept on a cot on the screen front porch at times in the summer. I loved to nap there in the afternoon when it rained. 

Never was in the competition of being the prettiest with the best make up and hairstyle and clothing...ick? Who cared back then growing up or now at my age...never needed to be a princess or Barbie...for that matter I never owned a Barbie but I had a passel of G.I. Joe's. They had better stuff...trucks and guns. Not swim suits and heels. 

But Tomboy didn't mean I didn't like boys, in fact I had more friends that were boys than I ever had girlfriends. Girls were whiney drama and so God has seen fit for me to raise two of them. Stop the whiney drama and get to it. Boys were just straight forward with no drama and no PMS about who has better hair or what shade of lipstick. How boring. 

I spent hours in a tree house, thought dogs were better humans than most and still do. I played cowboys and Indians....no I didn't pretend to be Becky Boone...I was Daniel with a shotgun to boots. Ha! I was a great shot too when I had weapons that had bullets real and pretend.

I wouldn't wear red or "curly clothes" as a little girl. Still don't wear red today but maybe a few curls if I have to dress for work or some important event that I have no choice about.

I went to a slumber parties a time or two as a girl and teen...so much silly girl drama. I usually opted out of most. Stayed home to do my own thing and I am sure it was more fun since I am also a total introvert. My cup is fuller when alone and depleted in a crowd. 

I did have baby dolls and stuffed animals only because I held a weekly veterinarian clinic or had hospitals to run. Not time for Barbie dress up and all those itty bitty heals.

And foe today. I own a couple of dresses mostly for weddings, funerals or the random writing events I attend. Work? Nope. If work required daily dress up in the form of a dress or skirt I would search for a new job...I kid you NOT. 

And I am famous for...should I have to wear a dress...my biker shorts ride beneath it. Opps...Oops...TMI. Seriously, as a teen and twenty something I had shorts and t-shirts under my dress and as soon as I escaped church I pulled off that dress and heels right there in front of everyone and God and drove off in comfort. 

But all in all I suppose I am still without a doubt a Tomboy at heart. It's more comfortable there. I am just not fragile like a flower petal, I am fragile like a bomb.

Sunday, February 6, 2022

Contraceptives of the old west...tead lightly cowboy!


Yes, I write historical romance and I posted about this before. I write some sexies in my stories and well, the reality is what did they use to do back in the day for preventing pregnancy? Here is a recap of what I have posted previously in 2018. 

As I write historical stories, I keep writing around the idea of just how women in the day kept from becoming pregnant. Hey, if I hurry and marry off the couple then it’s not really a big deal, but what about if the marriage might be a ways off in the story? Here is some of the information I found.

Caution: PG-13 if you continue to read.  

Childbirth in the late 1800’s was a gamble for any woman given the complications and out west the lack of facilities or physicians made even a normal birth a huge risk for a woman. Birth control as a whole wasn’t widely accepted and should a woman birth a viable child, it might be she had a house full of children due to the lack of contraceptive acceptance and availability. The 1800’s was full of restrictions and laws but held some of the highest abortion rates of any of the recent centuries, but women and even men weren’t beyond trying a variety of methods to keep from producing a child or more children.
Various methods of contraception in the Old West:
1-Abstinence-Providing a woman could convince her husband to stay out of her bed or possibly visit the local brothel instead.
2-Withdrawal-Which meant a man had to have the ability to hold off on the end result and had to have the ability to remove himself from the woman before his big finale. The problem here was the “guppies” at least a few escaped prior to the big finish and women often found this method failed them.
3-Sponges and douching-Sponges soaked in lemon juice were at times effective, as the acidity immobilized the “guppies” and the sponge blocked the path into a woman's cervix. And lemons were not widely available and so women might opt for Quinine which was proven to have little effectiveness when used with a sponge. There were also the women who opted for a variety of chemicals that caused them more harm than good and often ended in pregnancy anyway. Douching with various liquids and herbs might or might not work but were often harsh to sensitive tissues. Douching syringes were sold for the purpose and often with chemicals like sulfates or Zinc or Iron to kill the “guppies”.
4-Cervical Caps were customized from a variety of items including beeswax and were easily replaced by the same wax that families used to make their candles, but without customized fits for security, the “guppies” found a way in more times than not. Some cervical caps were made of items such as wood and later rubber.
5-Condoms did exist though as in modern-day, men of the old west didn’t much prefer them, nor were they easily available or reliable. First condoms were made of sheep or pig intestine which could cost around one dollar each and men were often said to wash them out for re-use but of course, each use lessened the security of leaks. And by the 1840s rubber versions became available, though failure rates were still in excess of 10%. Prostitutes were the first to readily use condoms to prevent pregnancy and disease, but it took a bit longer for married couples to venture into the method. Added to the newer variety of rubber condoms was lemon juice, sulfur, zinc, and a variety of other concoctions which didn’t lower the risk of pregnancy much more than the 10% of condoms alone and added to that was the costs and availability to a cowboy seeking a little pleasure from his women.
6-Chemical or mechanical abortion. With little medical care, shortage of physicians, and lack of resources, women did opt to “rid” themselves of unwanted pregnancies. A variety of harsh chemicals might terminate a pregnancy but often put a woman herself at risk. Toxic drugs such as Ergot and Quinine in large doses could terminate a pregnancy but also left the woman if she lived with harmful effects from damage to the kidneys to excessive bleeding, anemia, and potential death. With mechanical intervention, the risks of bleeding and infection were extremely high and many women died. Women also wore tighter and tighter corsets, starved themselves, and caused themselves deliberate injury in order to end an unwanted pregnancy and it wasn’t until the 1850’s that anti-abortion protests began and 1870 when the act was banned by law.
7-Rhythm Method-Women who knew their bodies well figured out their fertile and non-fertile days but this method of contraception was often not so reliable, given today we know that the “guppies” can live up to five or six days in the vagina and still manage to travel.
Contraception was a bit different where Indian’s of various tribes were concerned. Because the Indian’s were nomads living off the land and often moving, children were spaced out for 3 to 5 years, given a mother could not travel and nurse more than one child at a time. Indian women often nursed a child for 3 to 4 years and during that time period was often abstinence and this was tolerated by the men, with most families consisting of no more than 3 to 5 children when compared to pioneer/western white families with twelve or more children.
Native American’s often utilized various herbs and plants to prevent pregnancy and it’s suggested some of these herbs work in this day and time:
1-Saskatoon Serviceberry
2-Indian Paintbrush-liquid concoction prevented pregnancy
3-White Turtlehead-Leave boiled for tea prevented pregnancy
4-One-Seed Juniper-Tea of leaves or tea of the berries drank every morning for 3 days prevented conception
5-Western StoneSeed-boiled roots, pounded and soaked in water and then consumed daily for 6 months would prevent pregnancy for good.
6-Bitter Cherry-dried wood form the plant was soaked in hot water and the water consumed to prevent pregnancy.
7-False Hellebore-Tea made from the root was consumed to prevent pregnancy
I couldn’t find much as far as rating all these plants in their effectiveness, but my guess is even today not one method of birth control is truly 100% effective…there is always that .00999% waiting to happen. Careful Cowboy….tread lightly. 

Tomboy

Me....still...and ongoing....and forever...

I cried every Sunday morning because God required I wear a dress to church. I never liked church until I grew up and chose a church where I could wear a t-shirt, jeans and Teva’s if I wanted to. 
Oh I loved Jesus and still do...but I don't think he required a dress to learn his word. Sometimes I have been known to dress less fancy for the shock factor anyway...

Case in point...we took a cruise and you had to dress up to eat in the dining room. It wasn't the Titanic by any means so....NOPE! Jeans with a sweatshirt and tennis shoes for me...I paid what the others sitting nearby paid...I'll have the filet mignon, thanks. If a restaurant needs dress up....for me it's a pass. 

I didn't go to my senior prom not because I didn't have a date but because....yeah the dress thing again and being formal and heels hurt my feet and I'd rather have Taco Bell than Brussel sprouts. I stayed home and read a book...much happier that way. 

Yep, I wore a wedding dress but I had a ballcap to match once the pictures were done. And I had a Yoo Hoo...not wine...and I was barefoot. Married on the beach. And my vows were love, honor, cherish....not obey. Didn't prefer that choice of words...but I love him still.

I sort of feel sorry for my daughters...I am not the princess type and they probably needed a better girlie girl type role model. Hair, make-up and dress up with heels....uh...pass! I'm the mama who pushed them to do things for themselves, not remain a helpless female and even now talk to them about not having to rely on a man for their future. Sure fall in love and find your partner, not one you have to take care of or one who has no idea how to hold down a job to provide. Go provide for yourself...don't set yourself up to rely on anyone. 

My Dad taught me to ride a motorcycle and drive a stick shift and change a tire. My Mom taught me to play softball, cook and paint...yes paint walls inside the house and outside if needed...a farm girl in her own rights. 

I am not too keen on bugs and certainly not spiders but I love to camp and I have fished more hours than could be counted. My Grandmother wouldn't fish on Sundays but I have no hard rules about that. 

I also played drums...not flute...why be normal? Drums were more fun...actually Xylophone was my favorite. 

I loved my Papa and Granny's farm...endless hours to explore. Horses, cows, wild kittens, fields, ponds, and I even slept on a cot on the screen front porch at times in the summer. I loved to nap there in the afternoon when it rained. 

Never was in the competition of being the prettiest with the best make-up and hairstyle and clothing...ick? Who cared back then growing up or now at my age...never needed to be a princess or Barbie...for that matter I never owned a Barbie but I had a passel of G.I. Joe's. They had better stuff...trucks and guns. Not swim suits and heels. 

But Tomboy didn't mean I didn't like boys, in fact I had more friends that were boys than I ever had girlfriends. Girls were whiney drama and so God has seen fit for me to raise two of them. Stop the whiney drama and get to it. Boys were just straight forward with no drama and no PMS about who has better hair or what shade of lipstick. How boring. 

I spent hours in a tree house, thought dogs were better humans than most and still do. I played cowboys and Indians....no I didn't pretend to be Becky Boone...I was Daniel with a shotgun to boots. Ha! I was a great shot too when I had weapons that had bullets real and pretend.

I wouldn't wear red or "curly clothes" as a little girl. Still don't wear red today but maybe a few curls if I have to dress for work or some important event that I have no choice about.

I went to a slumber parties a time or two as a girl and teen...so much silly girl drama. I usually opted out of most. Stayed home to do my own thing and I am sure it was more fun since I am also a total introvert. My cup is fuller when alone and depleted in a crowd. 

I did have baby dolls and stuffed animals only because I held a weekly veterinarian clinic or had hospitals to run. Not time for Barbie dress up and all those itty bitty heals.

And foe today. I own a couple of dresses mostly for weddings, funerals or the random writing events I attend. Work? Nope. If work required daily dress up in the form of a dress or skirt I would search for a new job...I kid you NOT. 

And I am famous for...should I have to wear a dress...my biker shorts ride beneath it. Opps...Oops...TMI. Seriously, as a teen and twenty something I had shorts and t-shirts under my dress and as soon as I escaped church I pulled off that dress and heels right there in front of everyone and God and drove off in comfort. 

But all in all I suppose I am still without a doubt a Tomboy at heart. It's more comfortable there. I am just not fragile like a flower petal, I am fragile like a bomb.